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7/26/00 2:56 AM
I think this is the first time feelings like this have ever come up.  You know me well; you know by now that I more or less never want to have children.  Yet something in ----- changes that.  I suddenly feel not only that raising a family seems like a fascinating idea, but a challenge I could probably meet well (though a great deal of nervousness accompanies this).  Read our emails since we met last Friday.  Little gifts we construct of thoughts and feelings and words for one another.  Long-term?  Marriage?  FAMILY??? CHILDREN?????? wow, what the fuck is happening to me.  When is she going to turn out to be a helpless psychotic in disguise?  I have no fears of that.  And I'm not afraid of my desires to 'go domestic'.  She seems like the one I'd want for that.  Or someone very much like her.